The Modern Man’s Take on Home Defense
Whether living in a city, suburb or the countryside, home defense should be on the mind of any modern man. Not only does have the ability to defend their home offer men peace of mind, but being prepared for home defense also ensures that those who matter most are protected; namely, family. Here’s some expert advice to ensure that any modern man, living the original men’s lifestyle, is prepared for home defense.
First and perhaps most importantly, any home should be armed with a security system of some sort. Alarms are one key to home defense, preferably motion-sensor alarms, as these will alert homeowners if anyone enters the home. While the system doesn’t need to be armed at all times, it should always be on at night or when the family is away. In areas that see high rates of theft, it’s also advisable to install security cameras to cover the outdoor portions of the property.
Another necessity for proper home defense is maintaining a high level of physical fitness, which is also key to a healthy men’s lifestyle. Many modern men are extremely busy with work and family, but it is crucial to stay in good shape in the event of an intruder in their home. This includes both maintaining cardiovascular fitness as well as building strength, as if a confrontation with an intruder ever comes to physical violence, it’s important that they be able to defend themselves.
Speaking of self-defense, many men also choose to keep a gun or other weapon in their home. Guns should always be under lock when not in use, but having one in the home can offer peace of mind, and may allow for intruders to be scared off without resorting to violence. For men living in crime-prone areas, it may also be wise to obtain a concealed-carry permit for increased self-defense capabilities.
For men uncomfortable keeping a firearm in the home for whatever reason, another option is to keep forms of alternative weapons in the home. Knives are one popular option, as they are easy to conceal or to hide from small children and are effective in close quarters. Axes and hatchets are also a good choice, particularly because they have other practical uses when landscaping or doing yard work. There are also less-lethal options such as tasers, which are available for purchase by civilians in 45 states.
Whatever weapons or security systems they choose to employ, a gentleman should always be ready and able to defend themselves. For the modern man, that means staying in top physical form, arming their home with security devices, and having a weapon of some variety in the event that their home and family need to be defended.
How a Gentleman Handles a Traffic Accident
Traffic accidents are stressful for everyone involved but can also be a testament to the gentlemen’s lifestyle. However, understanding how to properly manage the incident will prevent further hardships for ourselves and others. Provided we have not sustained any serious injuries of our own, a gentleman should exit the vehicle, check to see that everyone is okay, and assure them that we intend to follow proper legal procedures. Having our documents in hand before climbing out of the vehicle is always helpful for ourselves and other drivers.
We should immediately begin resolving the situation, beginning with a phone call to the authorities, and after politely informing the other driver we’ve called the police, taking a few moments to exchange insurance information. Regardless of who is at fault, we should refrain from assigning blame, and if possible, quickly take measures to our prevent vehicles from further impeding traffic. Taking pictures of the vehicles before maneuvering them away from the road is usually a good idea, since it may help police draw accurate conclusions. Upon arrival, officers will assess the accident and issue citations accordingly.
Once the police arrive and we are asked to give accounts of the incident, we need to think carefully and speak slowly. Using suitable manners, we should provide as many details as possible, even if we are in danger of being implicated. Statements are helpful in determining the nature of the crash, but police can often develop an accurate assessment simply by observing the damaged areas.
Cooperation is essential for every modern man, especially when attempting to de-escalate the situation. If other drivers or passengers become hostile, the best reply is often the least vocal. Occasionally, that includes withdrawing from the confrontation until the authorities arrive. We should try to remember accidents can be emotional, and each of us reacts differently. In most cases, other drivers, like ourselves, are simply hoping to settle the matter as peacefully and efficiently as possible.
How a Gentleman Interacts with Law Enforcement
All parents teach their children not to be afraid of law enforcement officers. However, in most cases, that does not work. When people are pulled over, they almost always feel their hearts thudding and blood rushing. As a gentleman, however, there are several things you have to put in mind when interacting with the police.
Be Truthful
A gentleman is never caught in a lie. You always have to remember that cops have body cameras and their cars have such devices too. So, you really cannot lie that you did not run that red light when you did. It is all on camera. So, make your life and that of the police simple and just admit your mistake. It will also be safer since the policeman standing on the side of the road is in a dangerous spot.
Never Touch a Police Officer
Unless you are a child and you just want to shake their hand, you are not allowed to hold a police officer. If you are a danger to the police officer in question, your well-being is not important to them. The jail time for assaulting an officer is also not something you want to experience. So, don’t even lay a hand casually on them; it is a felony, and you risk being arrested and getting jailed or getting hurt.
Be Calm and Relax
The worst thing people do is to look anxious or agitated. Of course, if you seem agitated, you look guilty. The officer will want to know what you are hiding, even if you truly have nothing to cover up. You also need to remember that no one likes being pulled over but the police have a job to do, and they need to do it well to ensure they protect citizens of the country that include you. So, don’t be harsh or rude when you are pulled over. Roll down your window, listen to what they have to say and don’t reach for your documents until they ask you to do so.
Keeping your gentlemanly and modern man’s polite manners is necessary regardless of who you are speaking to. Being good to police officers makes their work easy and allows you to be free sooner. In the same way you want to be treated well at your workplace, you also need to respect police officers.
Understanding the Appeals Process
In many legal proceedings, it is common for one of the parties involved to feel that the court may have committed an error that led to a ruling that was unfair to that party. Depending on the nature of that error, and the potential consequences of allowing the original ruling to stand, it may be necessary to file an appeal of that ruling with an appellate court.
How Do You Start an Appeal?
The appeal process begins with a notice of appeal that is filed with the court that heard the case in question. Either party can file an appeal, and they have 30 days to do so. This notice will list the specific reasons supporting the belief that the court committed some error of procedure or in some interpretation of the law and that those alleged errors had a material effect on the outcome of the case.
Who Hears the Appeals?
In general, appeals involving matters of state law are heard by a state court of appeals and those cases involving federal law are heard by a division of the U.S. Court of Appeals. Once an appeal is filed, the attorney filing the appeal will appear before the court to argue his or her position. If any other parties are involved in the appeal, those parties will also be given the opportunity to present their arguments as well.
Unlike a trial, there is no new evidence presented at an appeal. Instead, the lawyers are arguing based on the error they felt was committed by the court in the previous trial. Because of this distinction, clients will sometimes change lawyers if their defense or prosecution lawyer does not specialize in appeals.
Is There a Time Constraint on Filing an Appeal?
Most states require that an appeal is filed after a case has been decided, although there are exceptions to this requirement that are unique to each state and the type of case itself. It is also possible that the court may issue a stay pending appeal (postponement or deferment) of its original ruling until the appeal is ruled upon by the appellate court.
Where Can I Find More Information?
There are always exceptions to generalizations such as those just mentioned. Tad Nelson & Associates, a firm that has appeals lawyers based in Texas recommends you find a lawyer who is familiar with a given state’s practice and procedure governing its appeals process. Above all, it is important to remember that just because an appeal is filed is no guarantee that an appeal will be granted.
In summary, an appeal is a motion asking that a court’s ruling in a case be reviewed by another court that has the authority to issue a ruling on the merits of the appeal. If the appeal is granted, the court may order that the initial ruling be set aside and the case is sent back to the original court for modification its ruling or, if necessary, for retrial.